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    Relationship Anxiety & Growing Up

    As an almost 30 year old, it may be difficult for some people to understand how and why I am not ready for a serious relationship. I have found that many people can’t seem to admit that they aren’t as well, either because they still crave companionship (without obligation) or because it’s simply too hard to articulate. Here is my attempt at articulating exactly why I am not ready to give someone what they would need from me in a relationship without taking something away from myself. I love my life now. I have an amazing group of friends, family, & co(space)-workers, an exciting career, and an adventurous travel life.…

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    Dating in Denver

    I’ll start by saying that I am far from an expert at dating but to be fair, who is? (and who would want to be?) My back story, similar to most singles in their late 20’s/early 30’s, I was in a serious relationship during my more ‘formative’ dating years from 20-26 and as much as he and I still get along, oddly enough, it just didn’t work out. I needed to learn more about myself as an individual before committing myself to someone for life… and I think he needed it too. I went rogue for a few years while I traveled the world obsessively and had a couple (honestly…

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    From Austin to Denver

    I wish I could tell you I had a brilliant story or reason behind my move to Denver. I only have a moderately interesting series of circumstances that lead me here. I made my first trip out here in January of 2015, my second trip was just two months later, by August of that year I started looking at purchasing a home out here without any real plan. To me it was a fun place with good potential for investment property and, well, why not?? After I had been outbid on four separate occasions, I had nearly given up hope and put the idea on the back-burner. In April of…